If my life is fated by the divine then how can I reason that I can fate better what has already been fated? How can I be so arrogant and blind to think that my plan is far superior to the plan the God has destined for me? Where do I get the gall to stand up and take “control” of my life and say “No! This is what is best for me!”, How can I challenge that which is beyond me?

"…They plot and plan, and Allah too plans; but the best of planners is Allah." (Quran 8:30)